babies


So once again, I’ve decided to be super ambitious (the pregnancy hormones do it to me) and make another nursery set for Sprocket like I did for Marion. This time around though, since the girls are sharing a room, I actually am making two sets of everything. Yeah, because one wasn’t enough.

If you’ll remember last time, there was this little thing called Hurricane Ike and two weeks without power that hindered my finishing efforts. That, and the fact my sewing machine went nutso on me until I (a year after she was born) literally, literally, fixed it by smacking it with a hammer.

This time, I’m determined to get the project done before Baby Sister is born and another hurricane hits and my sewing machine is unfixable with a hammer.

With seven(ish) weeks left to go, I’m proud to say I’m halfway done! That’s a pretty big accomplishment for me. Marion’s bed is completely done and really, the only must do projects that are left are Sister’s crib rails and bed skirt. There are a few other little things I’d like to do, but those are just icing on the proverbial cupcake.

(Apologies in advance, but this room is really hard to photograph and often the best pictures are with my camera phone, so there will be a mix of good and not so great photos.)

Before we even moved, we picked out fabrics for the new nursery and picked this mix of fabrics from Michael Miller

And this is what we started with after we moved (at least on Marion’s side of the room)

And this is what we have now! (That thing in the bottom left corner is my ironing board)

One of the first things we had to do was to get a new blind for the room! The girls’ room faces due east and so the sun comes up bright and early.

So we bought this dark gray blackout shade from Ikea, and it was wonderful, but in the end, it didn’t work with the drapery rod we chose.

Which meant, not only did I have to make curtains for the first time, I had to make curtains lined with blackout material.

I think they turned out pretty good! (I promise there are two of them, it’s just really, really, really hard to get a picture of them both straight on.)

This is my favorite little spot in the room, Marion’s little reading nook

It’s constantly in use! (And yes, it’s meant to hold books, but she usually just has them scattered on the floor.)

A rare moment of cleanliness

And even though she’s pretty well past teething (we’re just waiting on the two year molars), I still did her a set of teething rails just because I like the way they look

She’s been sleeping with a pillow for a while, so I made her a pillowcase to match

Well, she got two actually. I think Mr Brown Dog likes the bird better than the polka dots

Along with two new changing pad covers and a bow board. However, I realized with TWO girls, I’m going to have to make a much larger bow board!

One little storage basket (we need a few more of these, but that’s a scrap project for when I have nothing else to do, hahahaha!)

It’s only taken me three and half months since we moved in to get this stuff done, we’ll see what else I can knock out in the next seven(ish) weeks!

On Monday, I had my 24 week OB appointment and we got some great pictures. Then, I realized I hadn’t even posted the 20 week pictures! Bad mommy and poor little second child!

So, without further ado, 20 weeks gestation.

She’s doing her runner stretches already!

She was breech during this ultrasound and apparently bored as she kept playing with her toes.

This might be one of the coolest pictures ever. She gives us the thumbs up as parents already :)

Because of her position, we weren’t able to get good facial shots. She’s looking at us in this picture, forehead to the left, body to the right.

Same position as the above picture, but in this one, she’s trying to suck her thumb. It’s so cool to see how different she is than Marion already. They say if they suck their thumb in the belly, they’ll be thumb suckers when born. We never saw Mar even try to suck her thumb and she never really took a pacifier when born. It will be interesting to see what Ginger does when she’s here!

Alien baby!

Another amazing photo. She’s about 12 ounces in this picture, almost a whole pound! And exactly what Marion weighed at this age too.

And yes, she’s still a girl!

Because she was in such a funny position for that ultrasound (and stubborn enough not to move) they couldn’t get very clear pictures of her spine and legs. Which just meant we got an additional ultrasound at 24 weeks. Two ultrasounds actually, the same as Marion. When I went in, I drank my nasty glucose drink for the diabetes test, then went for the ultrasound. She was just chilling, being non cooperative. But it let us get some great profile shots!

It might look like she’s blowing bubbles, but she’s not.

The bubbles are actually the umbilical cord. It was apparently tickling her face and so she was trying to move it away by blowing on it. Silly girl!

She’s got a super cute nose, doesn’t she?

The glucose had definitely kicked in by the end of my appointment and she had flipped back down to head first, so they were able to get the measurements they needed. She’s still perfect! :) And just like with Marion, I was measuring 26 weeks instead of 24. It’s funny that they have very different personalities already but are also so similar in other ways. I guess that’s what happens when you are sisters!

And for fun

Marion is on the left, Ginger on the right. Both at 24 weeks.

Earlier this week we had two great appointments to check on Ginger! The first appointment was on Monday with my regular OB. Since I had hit 12 weeks, we tried to listen to the heartbeat with the doppler. It picked it up right away! It was an amazing 170 beats per minute!!! That’s a lot higher than Marion’s was (I think her’s was around 160 for most of the early pregnancy) and the old wives tales would say it’s another girl! Everything else is great as well, including my blood pressure, which is fantastic.

Tuesday afternoon we had our NT scan and blood work; we did the same with Marion. It’s such a super cool experience; our scan was in the same room that we had Marion’s scan. That was pretty cool :) And of course, the pictures are always so neat!

Ginger’s arms. In the left picture, it’s like s/he’s saluting us! The right picture is kind of shot under the baby, the left arm is up by the head, the right arm is pointing straight down.

This makes it clear as mud, doesn’t it :)

Ginger’s profile. Such a sweet little baby already

And for fun, compare to Marion’s profile!

The greatest picture, between the legs! The ultrasound tech said it looked like a girl to her! She clarified it by saying it was just a guess, but in a few more days, it won’t be just a guess! Our genetic center offers early gender determination by bloodwork (the mom’s, not the baby’s) that is 99% accurate. So by early next week, we’ll know if we’re team pink or blue!

Either team, we’re just happy to have a healthy, ACTIVE little Ginger bean! S/he was such a little mover! Ginger would swim over to the one side, plant her feet and just push off! We saw her do little rolls (probably because the tech was poking my belly and annoying her!) and s/he waved at us a ton. It’s so cool to already see a little bit of personality come through!

But this time, I have a really good reason, I promise!

My attention and energy as of late has been focused on growing this little one

Internets, meet Ginger. Ginger, meet the Internets.

Ginger with labels.

We’re due September 27th so Marion will be getting a baby brother or sister for her birthday! We’re so excited and so blessed to be expecting this new little one and we can’t wait to welcome Ginger into our lives!

I just updated my baby carrier reviews with my (almost) four month impressions and two new carriers – the Mei Tai and the Baby K’Tan.

Link is on the right sidebar.

Today is National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day.

It’s such a bittersweet day for me. I’ve got this amazing little girl wrapped up on my chest, sleeping soundly (if truth be told, she’s snoring.) But I also have a twin sized hole in my heart. I sometimes have wondered, what would it be like to do this with two babies? Would I be twice as tired, twice as happy? I can’t imagine not having Marion in my life though. I try to tell myself that if I had the twins, Marion could still be here. After all, twins come early, so if they were born by such and such gestation, I still could have gotten pregnant with her, etc. I know it’s not true though – there’s no way I could have had all three babies. It’s either I would I have had twins, or I would have Marion. How can you make that kind of a choice?

So I chose to believe …
- I believe that for whatever reason, my twins were meant to only be with us for a very short time
- I believe that for whatever reason(s), that I’m still not sure of, that their lives had meaning and purpose
- I believe Marion was picked for us by her brothers
- I believe Marion is destined to do something amazing
- I believe there is a reason she’s with us and our twins aren’t
- I believe that one day, I might see why this all happened and I might understand a little bit better
- I believe losing my twins made me a better wife and a better mother
- I believe losing my twins gave me a dimension to my soul that those who have never had a loss will never experience
- I believe I love now in a way I never knew that I could
- I believe I’ll always miss my babies but I also believe that it does get better, that joy does come in the morning, even if it takes a long time to reach that morning.
- I believe they made me a mother, in my heart, if not in my arms

So David and Jonathan, your Daddy and I love and miss you today, and every day. But we remember you today, we acknowledge your existence, no matter how short. And we thank you for this gift of your sister and for making us parents. We love you so much.

http://www.october15th.com/

I promise! I have to upgrade my account with google and as soon as they give me more storage, I’ll have lots more pictures!

Papaw and Marme came all the way from Mississippi to be with us when she was born. It really meant a lot to both Josh and I to have them here to share this with us.

Papaw with his newest little girl

In far scarier news, we get to take this little angel home with us today! YIPES! We still don’t have power, but CNP is saying it should be back up for our zip code today – so we hope they are telling us the truth. We probably also don’t have cable or internet, so blog posts might not be too frequent until Josh goes back to work later this week.

And if anyone is wondering, Mrs Gail (my step mom) chose the name Marme for herself because she’s taught English courses for forever and Marme is of course what the girls called their mom in Little Women.

(how many times do you want to bet I’ll say that this first week of her life?)

But seriously, isn’t that the cutest face?

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